I was on the Facebook page of “Being Mary Jane”, a BET show reading people comments about the last episode. The last comment I saw was about the snooping in a relationship. That question led me to another one : When do you know if it’s serious between you and your bae?
MJ is seing a guy, he didn’t want to make their relationship public, but he had to, because of their boss, they are also sleeping together….a lot !!
So so so 🙂 First of all Do we or can we snoop through our bae stuff?
I’ll say ohh yeah loooll. I’m not talking about the crazy snooping ( following the guy everywhere, hiding camera …). Just talking about the basic snooping, like checking the closet, his phone time to time. ……
If your boyfriend or your girlfriend can’t check on your stuff that means you’re hiding something and hiding is not good news in a relationship. Like I said before, I’m sot talking about the crazy snooping and acting like a private. A girl can check on her bae closet if she needs.
OKKK I know about the concept of privacy. Even in a relationship, everyone deserve some little privacy, but still……. your bae has the right to snoop .
- A friend of mine was in a solid and beautiful relationship for 1 year with a Guy. She found out on Facebook that the guy was married with two kids.
- Another one was in a 10 years relationship. Everything was really fine, then she found out thanks to her brother, that the guy was getting married with another girl.
So you never know with these new generations relationships.
I know what some of you are gonna think ( she has a trust issues loooll ) , noooo. I don’t or maybe a little bit 🙂 . But I won’t get upset if my boyfriend check my closet or my bag……if it’s serious between us of course. I won’t let a “random ” guy touch my stuff lol. If you can’t trust your bae, you don’t need to be in a relationship with him, you are not a private detective, but his GF or wife.
When do you know if your relationship is serious ( so you can snoop llooooll , just kidding ) or not?
I don’t think I can answer that question, but I’ll just say, you’ll know if a guy or a girl is playing you or wanna build a true and real relationship.